The first time you shave can feel like a big moment. You’re dealing with new facial hair, new routines, and probably a few questions you’d never thought about before...Like, when should I shave for the first time? or what if I mess this up?

But worry not! Shaving for the first time doesn’t have to be complicated or intimidating. Once you know what signs to look for and how to prep your skin, the whole process becomes a lot easier and less stressful than you think! 

Below, we'll walk you through exactly how to know you’re ready for your first shave, best tips to avoid irritation, and what products make the biggest difference when you’re just getting started.

When is it Time to Shave for the First Time?

Even if you're eager, it's most important to lead with caution and speak with your parents or an older sibling before ever picking up a razor, because shaving too early can lead to unwanted irritation and discomfort.

There’s no magic age where everyone suddenly needs to shave. Some guys get facial hair earlier in their teens, and others don’t see much until later, and both are totally normal. What matters most is what the hair is doing, not how old you are. 

Here are the top signs a first shave could be in your near future:

1. Your facial hair is getting thicker and darker

If you're seeing darker, coarser hairs on your upper lip, chin, or along the jawline, not just light peach fuzz, then you may be ready to shave, my friend.

2. The hair is starting to feel uneven or patchy

Early growth rarely comes in perfectly, so a first shave can help even things out and give you a cleaner look while your beard pattern develops.

3. The texture feels rough, not soft

When the hair begins to feel stubbly, it means it’s fully visible and can be shaved safely. 

4. You're starting to feel self-conscious about it

This is valid too. If the growth is bugging you or you want a cleaner look, that may feel like enough of a reason to shave. However, be sure not to start too early when the hair is still super soft and wispy. If your face is still covered in mostly light, thin fuzz, you don’t need to shave yet. Using a razor too early is a no-go because your skin and hair really aren't ready for it. 

What You Need for Your First Shave

Shaving for the first time is easy, but shaving well takes the right tools. Here’s what will make your first experience smooth:

• A gentle shaving gel (avoid foamy aerosols)
• A clean, sharp razor
• Warm water
• A gentle post-shave moisturizer or aftershave lotion

Optional: Start with an electric trimmer if you’re nervous. Some guys prefer using a trimmer the first time to slowly ease into shaving. It’s also great for controlling early mustache or cheek fuzz without committing to a full shave.

How to Shave Your Face for the First Time (Step-by-Step)

Here’s a simple step-by-step routine you can follow, but be sure to have a parent, older sibling, or someone you trust to help you the first time. If you’re unsure about anything, don’t hesitate to have them demonstrate and share their own tips.

1. Start with warm water

Splash your face with warm water or shave after a warm shower. This softens the hair and reduces skin irritation. 

2. Apply shaving gel generously

Don’t skimp on this step. A good layer of shaving gel gives your skin a protective layer for the razor to glide across, minimizing the potential for nicks. Furthermore, it gives you a visual guide of where you've already shaved and what's left.

3. Shave with the grain

Shaving with the grain means shaving in the direction your hair naturally grows. It’s not as close of a shave as going against the grain, but it dramatically reduces irritation. Especially for beginners with softer facial hair, there's no need to go against the grain.

Not sure which direction your hair grows? Run your hand over your facial hair. If it feels smooth, that's the right direction. If it feels rough or pushes hair in a strange or messy-looking direction, that’s against the grain.

4. Use short, gentle strokes

Start with short, gentle strokes without applying much pressure. The razor will do the work!

5. Rinse the blade often

Between strokes, rinse your blade for the best experience. When hair builds up, it can cause tugging and increase the chance of razor cuts. 

6. Rinse with cool water

When you're through shaving, rinse your face with cool water to remove any remaining shaving gel. Furthermore, this will naturally close your pores and calm the skin.

7. Moisturize immediately

To keep your skin in tip-top shape, moisturizing after the shave is one of the best habits to get into your routine early on. A gentle aftershave lotion helps to prevent post-shave dryness and irritation. 

FAQs: First-Time Shaving

What age do most guys shave for the first time?

Most guys start shaving sometime between the ages of 14 and 17, but it varies widely. There is no “right age.”

Should I shave my mustache first?

Shaving the upper lip is totally normal for a first shave. You can also start with just the mustache if you’re not ready to shave your whole face.

Does shaving make facial hair grow faster?

Nope! This is a myth. Your hair will grow at the same speed regardless of your shaving habits.

Is it better to shave or trim at first?

If your facial hair is on the thinner side, trimming is better. If it’s thick and coarse, shaving is fine.

You’ve Got This — Your First Shave Is Just the Start

Learning to shave for the first time isn’t something you need to perfect right away. Everyone nicks themselves, misses a spot, or feels unsure the first few times. What matters most is that you have trusted guidance to figure out what works for your skin and your hair type.

As you keep shaving, you’ll get more comfortable with the routine, learn how your hair grows, and build habits that make the process easier and more predictable. Think of this as the beginning of taking care of yourself in a new way.

Take your time, go slow, listen to your skin, and don’t be afraid to adjust your approach as you go. You’ll settle into a rhythm faster than you think, and before long, shaving will feel like second nature.

And hey, if you ever mess up your lines or get a little razor burn, you’re in good company. Every guy has been there. The important thing is that you’re learning, improving, and taking the first steps into your own grooming routine.

You got this!